IS “BALANCE” A STATIC STATE OR A DANCE?
Is “balance” a static state or a dance? Reflections on the past six months and coming back to center. Get a tip or two for yourself, so you can come back into alignment.
what conflict can teach you
Let’s talk about conflict. What if it had gifts for you? By learning how to manage your responses to it, you can transform your relationship to it.
you don’t like the middle of a life transition (and what you can do about it)
What being in the middle of a transition feels like. A snapshot of where I’m at 6 weeks into California and tips for you, as you navigate your life transition.
where in your body do you feel safe?
Where do you feel safe in your body? Safety starts inside of us, not in our external world.
Yes, it did happen--Honoring your new identity
When we change and form a new identity, do the lessons and learnings all go away when we leave the environment that inspired it? Here’s what’s up for me as I transition into California life after 1.5 years in Mexico—and what you can do, too, to preserve your new identity after change.
people pleasers have a rough time with setting boundaries
People pleasers have a really rough time with setting boundaries. I share why in this post.
it's not 'there.' it's who we become when we are there.
Boundaries protect us. As I transition back to California, boundaries are how I intend to keep this special feeling inside of me and the version of self I’ve created alive.
how do you one thing is how you do everything.
Your life is not compartmentalized. How you do one thing is how you do everything.
performing is painful
Are you performing in your life? This childhood trauma response impacts every aspect of our lives. And it’s painful. This is my experience.
the grief in our choices
Change isn’t always easy - we must grieve. Another major life transition is on the horizon for me. Learn about it in this post.
some meditate. I listen.
How do you use your morning time? The transition between night and day is a great time to establish rituals that set the tone for your day.
is anger 'a crime'?
When you feel angry, how do you express yourself? In this post, I share my current journey with anger, how I ‘cover the tracks’ of the ‘crime’ and what am learning about self-expression.